“If everyone is moving forward together,
then success takes care of itself.”
– Henry Ford
In the early seventies, having returned from Vietnam, and under the most unexpected of circumstances, I found myself back in college. In the politest of terms, there had been a singularly unsuccessful three-year academic run prior the military.
Through the benevolent hand of the God, I spent a little more than a year at Fairmont State College, supported by the G.I. Bill and a cast of characters that would rival any I had known before or since.
Having always felt the outsider, the overseas adventure behind me, and the societal residue of anti-war sentiment still strong, one might say I was considerably adrift. This small college community opened its arms and introduced me to people and experiences I would never forget.
Those were the days, my friend…
One of those experiences was in the theater department. One afternoon, I saw a flyer posted on a bulletin board announcing upcoming auditions for a play by Irish playwright, Brian Friel. It was called ‘Lovers.’ I’m not sure why it caught my attention, but the play required four characters: two narrators and two actors.
Looking for, no that’s not right…needing to find some human connection, I thought I’d try out for the male narrator. I had never done any theatre, but I had worked in radio for a few years before the war and at the time had a weekend gig at a radio station in a nearby town. I figured it might not be too hard to read a narrator's part and what the heck, nothing ventured, nothing gained.


There were three sold-out performances in an intimate downtown theater. It was so successful, the theater owner hired us to come back and do it a couple more times. When we finished the run and struck the set, I had a couple of feelings. One was relief, the other was much deeper. It was the realization the rich relationships I had developed with everyone involved in the production was going to change. I learned there was nothing more exciting and meaningful than a group of people pulling together to make a performance successful. But when the show closed, life moved on and I felt a sense of melancholy that this amazing experience had come to an end.
Take aways…
I learned some things that year. One was the sheer volume of work and dedication required to put a production together. Secondly, in spite of the audience seeing the actors, they were only the ‘faces’ of all those who worked behind the scenes. Important, of course, but just a piece in the chess game that was afoot in making a success. It was a team of set builders, sound technicians, dialect coaches, photographers, musicians, filmographers, makeup artists, and of course the air traffic controller for the entire production – the director. Without the collective work of every single person, there would have been no production.
Fast Forward…


As with the earlier play, the run of three sold-out shows was successful.
When it was done, we struck the set – as minimal as it was for this play. I looked around the barren stage and remembered. Remembered the young man looking for some stability in his life and finding it in the most unusual of places, through a group of young, enthusiastic theater people accepting him and their respective roles as they worked their hearts out to make the show as meaningful as possible.
As I looked in the mirror this morning, it was clear the ‘suit’ in which I live has seen better days. But the little guy inside? It seems to me he hasn’t changed very much at all.
- ted
You done good, Tedder - done good!
ReplyDeleteA local theatre fellow wrote several short one act plays. Four are being performed this week at Scene One in Jefferson City. I'm one of 3 local seasoned actors playing 3 old seasoned Hollywood actors in a nursing home. The line in our show that connects so well with your ending: "My momma used to say, Men are just boys grown tall. Boys don't change much at all."
ReplyDeleteTruer words...never spoken...
DeleteBravo, Ted <3
ReplyDeleteTed, loved reading this blog. Thanks for sharing. You are an inspiration for my young one.
ReplyDeleteThank you NIrav...Tanish is a special youngster.
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