Sunday, October 4, 2015

Nothing like a little play...

“Act well your part; there all the honour lies.”
- Alexander Pope, An Essay on Man


Irish playwright Brian Friel died this week. He touched many lives and left a legacy of wonderful work.

You may not have heard of him, I suppose, unless you like the kind of work he did. I actually never met the man, but he richly touched my life – the notice of his death brought pause.

Spring 1972…
Following the military, I returned to school at Fairmont State College. The G.I. Bill funded my tuition and books, but for incidental expenses I took a job as a janitor in the Administration Building…the second floor my domain.

One day in the spring semester, my eye caught an announcement on one of the bulletin boards:

‘Brian Friel’s “Lovers” will be presented by the
Fairmont State Masquers in November of this
year. There are parts for two readers and two
actors. If you are interested in being a part of
this production, auditions will be held on
such and such a date.’

Hmm, I thought, I have always wanted be in a play.

I had been in radio during my previous college career. Why not give it a try.

So with the naiveté of someone having NO IDEA what might be involved, I showed up to read for the narrator’s part.

Memory fails as to the number of folks trying out, but the waiting room seemed pretty full. As I chatted with folks waiting to read, it became clear I was the ONLY non theater major, AND the only one with zero experience on the stage

Being undeterred by my own ignorance, I thought, You know what, I might just get this part!

The play was cast…
Auditions complete, all of the folks that had tried out gathered together for the casting announcement.

 “I want to thank all of you that auditioned out for the play. We have made out decision on the actors,” the director Dan Weber said.

“The parts for the readers will go to Chuck Whiting and Carol Malone.”

Damn! I was pretty sure I had a shot at that part.  I thought as I got up and started out of the room.

“Dreisinger, where are you going?”  I paused…

“We want you to play the part of Joe!”

“I’m sorry, what??” I stammered a little confused. “I have never acted in my life!”

“Trust me,” he said “You can do this.”

So began an immersion into collegiate theater, and one of the most interesting experiences of my life.

Lovers by Brian Friel…

The play took place on a hilltop in Ireland in the 1960s. Mag, the female lead, had become pregnant – she and Joe would marry soon. She had no patience for schooling. After all she was getting married…full of daydreams and distracted from her studies, she has fallen asleep.


Joe, the more serious, was concerned about their survival with a child coming into the world.

[Mag is waiting for Joe to meet her as the play opens].

[Joe comes up the hill and speaks to Mag in an Irish Brogue.]

“Mag there is something I never told you.
And since you are going to be my wife, I
don’t want there to be any secrets between
us. I have a post office book. I’ve had it since
I was ten. There is 23 pounds 15 pence in it now.”

[He looks down at her]

Mag? You asleep, Mag? How the hell
can you sleep when you have no work
done! Maggie!

She wakens, and after a few minutes of dialogue, the actors freeze on stage. With the help of slides and a black and white film projected to a screen center and above the stage, the narrators interject, informing the audience of what is ahead - they reveal what Mag and Joe do not know.

[Man]
“On Tuesday, June 21, a local boy was driving
his father’s cows down the edge of Lough Gorn
for a drink when he saw what he described as
“bundles of clothes” floating just off the North
Shore. He ran home and told his mother.”

[Woman]
“…the “bundles” were the bodies of Margaret
Mary Enright and Joseph Michael Brennan.
They were floating, fully clothed, face down,
in twenty-seven inches of water.”

Early in the show, the audience now knows what is to become of Mag and Joe.

In the course of the play, the characters argue, make up and energetically chat about their future. As the afternoon carries forward, they decide to head to Lough Gorn for a short boat ride to finish the day. The play ends as they run down the hill hand in hand, laughing with nothing in front of them but hard work and blue sky….

Better said, with nothing in front of them…

A success…
Every time I stood in the wings, a book bag slung over my shoulder, waiting for my cue, knowing there was nothing but a brightly lit stage and Kathy Malone (Mag Enright) waiting for me…I WAS TERRIFIED.

Once it began, however, for me it was just the two of us interacting with dialogue we had rehearsed hundreds of times...the words taking on a life of their own.  For the 60 minutes we pushed and pulled through the interaction of the characters, it was magic.

The play ran Thursday through Saturday with a matinee Sunday afternoon in that Fall of 1972.  It turned out to be so successful that the local theater where the show appeared, hired the entire cast and ran it again for several sold out shows later that year.

Who does it alone?
I learned a few things about theater during that time. The most valuable lesson was just how minor the actors are in the process. Set designers and builders…costume designers and sewers…musicians…dialect coaches…make up artists…lighting folks…photographers…rehearsals, rehearsals, rehearsals with script assistants there to prompt and encourage when needed. What a multidimensional team effort!

In all more than 30 people put that two-actor/two-narrator show together with love and selflessness I have rarely seen.

In the end we got good reviews in the local papers…I even won best actor for theater productions at the college that year, and through this experience met and learned to love some of the most quirky, energetic and talented people I have known in my life.

And then we were done…
At the last curtain call, we ‘struck the set,’ and all that had been alive in the months of preparation stopped on a dime with the unexpected suddenness of a plummeting boulder hitting concrete. 

I tried to recapture the feeling of the team effort, but it honestly took time to get over the withdrawal that came when that show ended. Everything about this was new to me…I did not know what striking the set meant…I do now.

Dan Weber, had created a unique multimedia (video, slide, music) interpretation of this play that, in spite of all its moving parts, flowed flawlessly.  He wrote me a brief note at the end of the year on a plain piece of paper that I still have:

“Ted,
I hope this experience will help you. May the
luck of the Irish always be with you. If we
can, let’s try another show someday,
Coach”

We never did another show together…I never did a theater production again with anyone, but what happened with those amazing people in that day and time owns a richly coveted place in my heart.


“Irish playwright Brian Friel died this week. He touched many lives and left a legacy of wonderful work.”…none more meaningful for me than Lovers – every single one of them….

-ted

Sunday, September 27, 2015

A note in time...

To: Nephew Coen
From: Ted
Re: Just because

Dear Coen,

I’ve been seeing pictures of you in fairly regular intervals since your arrival in Texas on April 25th, 2015.  It is apparent the move to Baltimore in early June has agreed with you.

This letter is the third in what I hope will be a series that you will be able to leaf through at your leisure when the time is right. The first was written prior to your arrival in San Antonio, and the second just after you got there.

By now you have had little over six months experience here in the U.S. I’ve waited to write, because I did not want the correspondence to be so frequently as to become overwhelming.

In these notes, I will try to do two things…one is to tell you a little about me, and the second is to share something that I have learned that has increased the quality of my life.

Today, however, I will simply say how delighted I am and how fortunate you are to have come to this planet through the love, guidance and protection of your mother and father. I must say, with all modesty and pleasure, that you have picked your parents well!

From them you will learn the importance of faith, hard work, modesty and honor. To you, growing up in this household, these things will seem most natural, but what you learn under their care will carry and protect you throughout your coming life. You will be given the protection you need to gain a good education and moral instruction, which you will find as you get older, is not so common as you might think. 

Most importantly, you will know above all else that you are loved and greatly cared for.  They have been charged with giving you the best of what they have, and there is little doubt you get all they have to give.

I would like you to know you have come from pretty good stock. Your mother’s people were from Scotland on her grandmother’s side and Austria on her grandfather’s. These second generation families made their homes in Toronto Canada, where your great grandmother and great grandfather grew up, met and married.

They immigrated to the United States bringing three children…that would be your grandmother Nancy and her two siblings – Anne and Ted – that would be me!

Your grandmother was, like her daughter, smart and rich in the spirit of humanity. Your father, like his father before him, understands the importance of quiet diligence and hard work.

Where do I fit into any of this? Well, I have more than the good fortune to have come to this earth in the family of your mother. Her mother was my sister, and for the record, a better sister one could not have had.

I have the extremely good luck to be the fellow who will come into your life from time to time…a fellow who, if I do this right, will be fun to be around. I hope you will look as forward to seeing me as I will look forward to seeing you.

I will do my best to make whatever time we have together as pleasant as it can be, after all I will come to you in small doses, that even you might enjoy!!

Finally, I want to share with you something I learned from my mother…gratitude!

She taught me to be grateful for life. In the years I was privileged to live with her, she never failed to remind me that I had been a gift to her. A gift she cherished and honored…a gift for which she had prayed long and hard.

She was grateful God had given me to her, and she made sure I understood how important it was. When I was younger, I did not understand the depth of gratitude she felt. As I got older and had the chance to go out into the world, I began to realize that it wasn’t she who should have been grateful for me, but I for her and for all that she gave and sacrificed for her favorite son…her only son…

I want you to know how grateful I am to have you become a part of my life. I hope the day comes when you feel the same…

To the future…

- ted


Sunday, September 20, 2015

An unexpected touch...

“If your heart is open, what lies around the
corner might just take your breath.”
- Author unknown

My dentist posted a short video from a concert of Mozart’s music he attended in Prague – Mozart’s home. The orchestra was dressed in period costume. The music was thrilling and brilliantly uplifting…it doesn’t get much better than that.

My earliest girlfriend and her hubby Dave posted pictures from Lisbon and Evora Portugal as part of their overseas holiday. The photos were stunning.

That's them...
While they were sampling culture and history at its best, I was watching short video clips of contestants performing auditions on ‘The X-Factor UK.’ 

You know these kinds of shows. People show up to perform, who typically say, “...music is my passion…” or as a 12 year old once said, “I’ve wanted this chance all my life!”

Most of the contestants are everyday folk who either feel they are gifted, or have been told by someone they were…most are not. Even the winners of these sorts of shows, seldom emerge into a sustainable performance profession…life in this business requires more than a good voice.

I suppose Susan Boyle, the 50 something, cheeky and unkempt woman is the exception. She looked like a chimney sweep’s mother until she opened her mouth and sang, I dreamed a dream from Les Miserable…no doubt she was a phenomenon who has found a career.

'Under the covers' so to speak...
It might be argued it is a guilty pleasure for me to hear some of the stories and listen to the boys and girls/men and women, sing covers of artists we all know – hoping this will be the golden ring to remove them from the small towns or jobs they are hoping to escape.

I don't have the patience to watch the whole shows, so I just pick up the actual performances. Maybe some of my psychologist friends might have a thing or two to say about my attraction to these ‘…putting it all out there without a net…’ kinds of efforts.

At the end of a long day of auditions, a young car mechanic, Josh Daniel, loped on to the stage to cover a song by a fellow named Labrinth – an artist I had never heard of – called Jealous. It’s a plaintiff piece about the loss of love and the raw, open feelings about it.

Part of the lyric refrain goes like this:

'Cause I wished you the best of

All this world could give
And I told you when you left me
There's nothing to forgive...

It's hard for me to say, I'm jealous of the way
You're happy without me

The singer said that he had a different take on the piece, because he had lost his best friend a couple of years earlier and when he heard the song, he felt a sense of jealousy that his friend, now in heaven, was happy without him.

I was watching this with the casual interest to which I have become accustomed, until he began singing the lyrics. In the context of this young man's interpretation of the song, I immediately thought of my sister, lost much too early, in 2012 to the opaqueness of Alzheimer’s.

This led to a cascade of video images racing through my mind of people who I deeply loved and have lost.  I had not really considered their exit from my life as a freedom, nor had I thought that somehow their lives (consciousness) are better without me…until…until I appreciated I have some time left before I - as they have already done - ‘go home.’

Going home…I don’t really understand what that means…I know the words, for God knows I have studied them and have faith...I think I have just been busy enough with my own journey and considering the here and now, to be caught up in the '...what might be...'

This performance, however, put my brain on pause.  I thought of those I love who still have breath. I felt an inexpressible longing and I wept.

I have been blessed to be touched by the music of Mozart and other masters and seen a lot of the amazing architecture of the European Continent…but this reached into a deeper place than I can probably express.

I am so often amazed that there are those wordsmith's, so gifted, who in a few short words can reach so deeply into our hearts as to strike such rich chords reminding us a our common bonds...amazed, yes, but more so grateful...

ted


You may, if you wish, watch this performance: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ra_iiSIn4OI